Fix It and Move On

The complaints were registered in rapid fire fashion. “Dad, the side gate to the backyard won’t latch.” “Dad, the back gate is broken.” Really? Two gates broken. A backyard full of boys. I suspected foul play.

Grabbing my tool box, I headed back. As I tightened bolts and bent metal back into shape, I smiled. My dad had done this for me. Many times. He had also made repairs. Countless repairs of items that I had broken in my carefree youth. Plus, I never remember him complaining. I never remember him saying, “David, you knucklehead. What were you thinking?” I just remember him fixing it. No blame. No guilt. Just making it right again.

One time, I had broken a second story window, while throwing snowballs (okay, more like ice balls) at the house. If ever I deserved a what for, that was it. I deserved to be taught a lesson. Looking back however, I just remember him fixing it. Fixing it and moving on.

As I repaired the mysteriously bent fence, I smiled. I smiled and just fixed it. I love my boys, just as my dad loved me. It was time, time to move on. My dad had done a good job, I had learned my lesson well.

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